Appreciation do you think people lack it ?
Not all blogs are about reviewing products or places , so I thought I would blog about the lack of appreciation people have these days.
I work alot , usually 6 days a week between 45+ hours a week and I dont have much of a social life so I live on social media to keep up with family and friends.
In the past few months I have seen so many statuses and comments (including my own facebook) about the lack of appreciation that people have.
I have seen people talking about friends, family and their work place and that they feel not appreciated.
I dont know if it is because my mum got ill when I was young and the thought of losing her made me appreciate people more or thats its just me.
I am a manager at my work place and I have about 20 casual staff memebers of all ages. I dont act better than anyone else and I try to have a realtionship with them all. I let them know when they do a good job and always try to show my appreciation when necessary .
Dont think I dont tell them when I think they are slacking off too.
I just dont understand why people dont appreciate anyone who trys to help make there day , week , month , year or life better.
Its free it doesnt cost a thing to say good job or thanks.
I left my last job and there I was just another worker it didnt worry me losing $200 a week in my wages because I became full time instead of casual and when I left I always got appreciated for the work I had done.
Friends lack of appreciation is different .
I am a pretty outgoing person who has done things on my own I was only 17 when I became a mum and had some hard times, I am not the kind of person who asks for help but is the first to help anyone who needs it.
My parents used to say some kids bring home stray animals when they are young but I brought home people I think at least 7 friends lived with us while I was growing up because they were kicked out or having troubles at home.
When I moved out after I had my son I think I lost count after 16 people who had lived with me for some reason they had no where to stay.
I am also not shy to let friends know how important they are in my life and how much I appreciate them.
Love your guts is something I say at some stage to those close to me.
Lately I have been hurt by people I truly loved and cared about and was so upset at myself for thinking they were appreciative for all I had done for them . I don't and didn't expect a medal but a thank you would've been enough .
I have now learnt not to go out of my way and do or help or spend money when it's not appreciated .
I believe I'm a simple person in the way a thank you or I really appreciated what you did or do for me goes a long way .
And what blows my mind is the people you don't that well ( ie customers , new friends, people that aren't so close to you ) go above and beyond to show their appreciation.
So moral of the story saying THANK YOU goes along way , so make sure you use it and say it as much as possible .
I appreciate and thank all those who have stuck by me and supported me throughout my life thru the good and bad times .... Xo